Making friends at university or college is an essential part of making these the best years of your life. But it’s also quite a scary, daunting task. Trust us, though, with a little help from Dux student support, it is completely doable, and you will make new friends this semester.
Developing Relationships - Tips from the Top
Here are some guidelines to help you on your way to nurturing good-quality friendships that could well last you your whole life.
Ja, ja – you’ve heard it a thousand times before. But that’s because it’s true!
There is such a vast group of people attending tertiary institutions that there really is a group for everyone. You may need to invest some time in finding your tribe, but it will be well worth it.
As much as there are plenty of worthy friend-candidates out there, none of them will find you if you hide. Look for opportunities to interact with others – on your walk to class, in the dining hall queue, at the gym – and let your personality shine.
Your lifelong friend may not be in those places, but it helps you to get a feel for how to make small talk and learn more about others. Said friend may be an acquaintance of your coffee station mate.
Extend the invitation instead of waiting for invites.
Along with the excitement of sharing your environment with such diverse people is the weirdness! Be careful not to judge a book by its cover – be open to new experiences and friendships.
Not everyone you get close to will remain your forever friend – and that’s okay. Everyone will, however, leave you with something – fond memories, a valuable lesson, or a warning for the future!
Think of making varsity friends as an anthropological experiment – and discover as much as you can about what makes people tick.
Most importantly – remember two key takeaways:
- It is OK to be alone – friends don’t need 24/7 contact to stay in touch.
- Good things take time – so relax and enjoy the ride.
The Dux Advantage
If you are looking for a launchpad for the extraordinary, look no further than Dux. We specialise in giving all the support needed for the increased mental health and wellbeing you need in order to flourish academically and in life. Contact us today, and get your ducks in a row: 060.656.1305 | firstname.lastname@example.org
Dux | dʌks | noun ”The top pupil in a class.”
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